Thanksgiving is a weird sort of holiday.
Sandwiched between arguably the two most commercialized days of the year, Halloween and Christmas, there is basically zero buildup. In fact, my impression is that more people are concerned with the day after Thanksgiving than the day itself. Heck, even the day before is of concern since it’s the “biggest travel day of the year.” Listening on the radio, all of the radio stations have begun their Christmas holiday programming.
Perhaps Thanksgiving is a gateway holiday: it marks the official beginning of the Christmas season.
Thanksgiving is a laid back sort of holiday. Everyone knows it’s coming, and everyone has plans, but nobody really talks it up. There are no big Thanksgiving day sales. There are no formalized gift-giving ceremonies. Aside from the day itself, the only ritual I can actually think of is the Presidential Turkey pardon. Oh, and the parade.
Break out the bubbly! The President pardoned a turkey! YEEEHAW! (Resisting urge for political turkey jokes…)
But then if I think a little more about it, I realize that there’s no one formal Thanksgiving ritual, aside from the turkey eating anyway. But millions of people all have their own Thanksgiving ritual. Travelling to see family. Watching football games. Maybe you eat ham instead of turkey. Or lamb. Or you sit and watch the Thanksgiving day parades. Or not. The parade isn’t exactly my cup of tea- but that’s just me. Go ahead, you can watch it. Fine be me.
Perhaps Thanksgiving is mostly about taking a day off. One day where everyone sits back and relaxes. Eat some good food. Hang with friends and family. Just a day where work and bills and social concerns are put on the shelf. Everyone gets a chance to decompress.
Because tomorrow is Black Friday and you’re gonna have to get up early and fight like Kung Fu Panda to get that one toy that little Johnny has been pining for. Then after that it’s the weekend with hockey or football games or exams. Plus there’s less than a month ’til Christmas and you haven’t finished your shopping yet for Aunt Gretta; you never know what to get her either (she’s such a pain-in-the-ass like that). Plus there’s that holiday concert the kids are in that everyone dreads because it’s just not cool to bring the iPod along and listen to music you’ll actually enjoy listening to.
But for today, none of that matters. So sit back. Relax.
And be thankful there’s a day like this.